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18th Sep 2025

Shidduch Dating is So Hard - Live Therapy Session

In this episode of the Attached Life Podcast, part of the 'In the Beginning' series, the host engages in a sensitive and deep conversation with a caller struggling with dating anxiety. The episode, released around Rosh Hashanah, focuses on the themes of new beginnings and self-reflection. The caller shares her feelings of betrayal and doubt stemming from a difficult past relationship, her complex relationship with her parents, and her struggles with self-trust. The conversation reveals the significance of self-forgiveness and understanding one's own emotional responses. The episode aims to offer listeners a profound perspective on dealing with personal challenges and the importance of patience, compassion, and self-acceptance.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles

00:12 Welcome to the Attached Life Podcast

00:40 Episode Overview and Themes

01:46 Exploring New Beginnings

04:07 The Impact of Past Relationships

13:38 Navigating Parental Influence

16:58 Self-Trust and Decision Making

18:34 Insights and Self-Forgiveness

30:19 Therapist's Role in Self-Compassion

31:30 Understanding Emotional Responses

34:43 Navigating Dating Anxiety

38:36 Self-Forgiveness and Emotional Expression

44:27 Impact of a Raging Parent

51:36 System Readiness for Healing

54:51 Challenges in the Dating System

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About the Podcast

The Attached Life
The Attached Life podcast is focused on recentering our lives around our most important relationships. Our content offers education, inspiration, and guidance for enhancing connection andĀ fulfillment.

Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky LCSW CSAT is the founder of Mind Body Therapy, a private group practice in Chicago. He is the author of a new book, Attached.
Please contact us with questions and comments, or to be added to our WhatsApp lists. Email: Yakov.attached@gmail.com WhatsApp: 773-888-2413

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